Monthly Archives: November 2020

It’s Not Too Late to Live the Life You Want

Dying Letter from a person with Lung Cancer.

“I wish I had not worried so much about the little things. I wish I had not worried so much about the numbers in my bank account or the punch of the time clock. All that time working. I had enough money to keep a roof over my head and to invest in what few hobbies I had, yet I still kept racking up overtime. And for what? Only to find myself here. It all came to nothing in the end. I robbed myself of the most precious commodity I had, time, in exchange for green pieces of paper and little metal discs. A perverse and twisted trade. Only now do I see the truth.

I wish I had had the courage to live my life the way I wanted to. I wish I had traveled the world, fallen in love, written a novel. I wish I had had children. I have no one to whom I can pass my life lessons. No one to sit by my side, here at the end of my world. It is too late for me. But it is not too late for you. Live the life YOU want, no matter how strange it may seem to others or to society. It is your life and yours alone. Live it well.”

I wish I had had the courage to live my life the way I wanted to. It’s not too late for you! It’s not too late for me. I gotta get on this. No really: Message me if you want to help me. I have plans and goals. I need help putting them into action. Send me an email! Find it at the end of my About section!

Trust or IQ, Which is more valuable, which is more successful?

According to Navy Seals, one of the most high performing teams in the world, they would rather have a mid to low performing and high trust worthy teammate, than a high performing low trustworthy teammate.

According to the US Military, the lower bound for IQ is 83, below which no job is available where that person can contribute positively to the organization. That means 1 in 10 people in the world alive today, assuming society is similar to the military, can not do work.

Perhaps they have a different role in society–they can foster and facilitate trust.