Category Archives: Life Education

Links to Good Advice

Matthew McConaughey’s Best Actor Oscar Speech 2014

Balance picking the best option now with waiting for something better – Quora

10 ways to improve your life – IdeaPowered on Reddit

Short Pieces of Wisdom on Images – Quora

Adam Savage’s “Talking to my kids about sex in the internet age” on The Moth

Billionaire Jack Ma teaches you how to be successful in life and business

60 year-old man reflects on the pros and cons of life – Reddit

What’s the wisest thing anyone has ever told you? – Reddit

DecidingToBeBetter wiki – Reddit

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How to Become a Morning Person

Chances are, if you say you’re not a morning person, it’s probably because you wake up feeling bad; you’re cranky, slow, lethargic, etc.  Waking up this way doesn’t actually mean you’re not a morning person: it actually means you did not get a good night’s sleep.  It does not mean that you’re not born to be a morning person, so much as it means you have the habits and/or a lifestyle that results in you not getting enough hours of sleep.  This is typically due to going to bed late or not resting enough for how much you’ve been working.  You should be aware that if you had a particularly exhausting day, or series of days, then it may take several days of good sleep for you to recover–waking up tired is a sign that your body needs rest, not a sign that you’re not meant to wake up early.  

The solution is therefore to go to sleep earlier and get the rest that your body is telling you that you need.  Some people think this is an impossible task, but here’s one reason why it’s not: If you fly to another country in a different timezone, you may start off feeling horrible and jet lagged, but eventually, after days, weeks, months at most, you will adapt to the new timezone.

Adjusting your natural sleep and wake up time is like traveling to another timezone, without actually traveling: you need to shift your habits and decision making, and act like it’s 1AM when it’s 11PM. Instead of setting an alarm in the morning to forcefully interrupt your body’s resting period and wake up, set an alarm for 15 min before you want to go to sleep, and when that alarm rings, go into your pre-sleep routine, shutting down all distractions, and wind down the day to go to sleep.  This will allow you to wake up naturally, and improve your overall health.  I like to write down how many hours of sleep I get per day, so if I see a few days go by of not enough sleep, I’ll be sure to schedule in some more time for sleep to make up for it.  (Approximate sleep needs are: Adults, 7-9 hours; 10-17 yr olds, 8.5-9.25; 5-10 yr olds, 10-11 hours.  Try to sleep in 1.5 hour increments, as that’s how long your sleep cycles last, read more )

Getting to sleep early is difficult.  It is a battle between the short term gratification of staying up late and the desire for a healthy improved life.  Winning this battle has two stages, first you have to decide that sleep is a priority, so that given ideal circumstances and self control, you actually want to choose sleep over whatever fun options may be available. You have to want to become a morning person; the reason you want it can be anything, but the fact that you want it needs to be there.  Next, you use self awareness, will power, and self control to make the choice to sleep when the time comes.

In the end, modifying your routine and waking up early is worth it for several reasons: 1. because you’re getting enough sleep, you’re healthier, physically as well as mentally and emotionally.  2. You’re waking up naturally or very close to when you would wake up naturally, so you feel well rested instead of exhausted when you wake up.  3. On the rare days that you wake up unusually early, you get to jump start your day and be extremely productive before the time you or anyone else is usually awake.  It also comes with another advantage: “Take an extra hour for yourself in the morning. Work will just be part of your day, rather than the reason you got out of bed.” – Actual Advice Mallard (link here)

Read my resource to Understand Sleep next!

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Understand Sleep

This Comprehensive article by HelpGuide on Sleep is well written.  Each person needs a different amount of sleep, at different ages. Lack of sleep has negative health consequences: increasing risk of diabetes, heart disease, fatigue, chance of depression; reducing decision making abilities, ability to think critically, creatively, and reduced ability to cope with stress.  Sleep deprivation is similar to drunkenness.  

To prepare for sleep, it is advised to have a consistent routine, so that your body is habituated to feel sleepy after doing that routine.  It is also good to begin shutting off lights and dimming your room gradually, to simulate the sunset, which is our natural trigger for going to sleep.

It is normal to wake up in the middle of the night.  Just go back to sleep right after.

What happens when you sleep? Well, during the day your brain uses energy and produces waste. This waste goes no-where UNTIL you sleep: that’s when it gets cleaned up. So it’s important to clean your brain by sleeping! Hence it clears your mind and you wake up refreshed when you sleep.  Data from Ted Talk by Jeeff Llinff

From my Doctor

  • Don’t eat big meals within 1-3 hours of sleeping (digesting horizontally is not good for your stomach and also disrupts the quality of your sleep)
  • Don’t exercise within 4-6 hours of sleeping (exercise earlier in the day, because exercise energizes your body making it harder to sleep)
  • Sleeping before 12AM is best because (Chinese Medicine) your body systems have a circadian rhythm for resting and cleaning and it begins around 11PM.
  • (Personal Experience) Drink enough water prior to sleeping so that you don’t get dehydrated during sleep–your body may wake you up so you can drink water, causing interrupted sleep.

If you exercise, you need more sleep than the average person.  According to this ESPN article, “Roger Federer and LeBron James have said they sleep an average of 12 hours per day, compared to about 7 hours for the average American. Usain Bolt, Venus Williams, Maria Sharapova and Steve Nash sleep up to 10 hours per day.” According to an infographic, lack of sleep reduces your performance.

Q: Why does sleeping to much make me feel even more tired A: “our “sleep clock” as they refer to it is actually a group of cells in a part of your brain called the suprachiasmatic nucleus. We also refer to this as a circadian rhythm. Sleep is regulated by two processes, the “sleep clock” (your circadian rhythm) and a sleep drive (this builds throughout the day and is associated with a buildup of a neuromodulator called adenosine). If you “oversleep” your sleep drive may be low but your circadian rhythm is thrown off (it’s regulated by consistency and especially waking up at the same time daily). In essence it’s confused. This confusion causes some people to feel more rested and some people to feel more sleepy. One additional curve-ball in this is that if you “oversleep” you may sometimes be waking up in the middle of a sleep-cycle which will also cause you to feel sleepy for a period of time.” – Reddit

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