- Having dinner the other day, I couldn’t help but constantly think to myself–am I being interesting right now, or am I being boring? Am I being a jerk right now? Arrogant? Then I caught myself: STOP BEING SO INSECURE! Just be yourself, and accept whatever happens: it’s not about being or not being certain adjectives or traits. Life is a range, not black and white: everyone is some degree of everything, and the degree is constantly changing. Just go with it, and react to life according to the principles you believe in.
- People who are afraid of being judged may be in denial of being bad at things, trapped in perfectionist thinking (Overcome Perfectionism)