2 Secrets to Better Relationships

TO have a healthy relationship,

self control

conscientiousness

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201106/how-pick-better-boyfriend-or-girlfriend

Attention span: focus. on their own life as well as during your date

delayed gratification 

planning: ability to make a plan and stick to it

achievement: finish what they start 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201109/why-dating-often-fails-and-how-you-can-succeed

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201107/6-tips-dating-success-what-you-both-want-matters

Steps:

What do you want

What will you give in return

assess dates

train dates to your preferences 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201105/is-your-personality-making-you-more-or-less-physically-attractive

Personality, honesty, character, values = attractiveness