Monthly Archives: January 2019

Performance Enhancing Behaviors

Thoughts On Life

Part 1: What are Performance Enhancing Behaviors? – Behaviors that improve your likelihood of getting what you want.
Part 2: Recommended Performance Enhancing Behaviors -Speed Reading -Speed Memorization -Physical Health (Sleep, Hydration, Nutrition, Time Consistency)
Part 3: How to learn from other people and their success — Figure out their behaviors and then try them for yourself
Part 4: Forgive yourself and Be Kind to yourself and Be Honest to yourself when you do this exercise. You are valuable and this is an opportunity to improve, remember that.

Conversation and Persuasion Tactics

Videos

To successfully Communicate and Persuade and Be Heard, follow these steps from Ellen’s skillful example:
1. Let them speak their mind
2. Acknowledge what they say, Agree and Support them to make it a safe place for them to open up and trust you and express themselves honestly to you.
3. Compliment the other person to get them to like listening to you and get them to open up their ears to hear what you have to say next.
4. Deliver your logical argument or say what you wanted to say to them.
5. Give them space to think about it and then let the respond honestly to you.
6. Address the comments while reassuring that you still acknowledge and support them and you have good intentions, explicitly. Explicitly do all of those things.
7. Yay happiness, they heard you.

Here are the Ellen Clips